At 01:26:41 on 24.08.11, JessAndGrenville123 wrote:
Well im sick of it and need to get it all off my cheast before i punch her in the face! Well you know those people who you think are your friends? But really they are saying stuff bout you behind your back? This is worse they have been bitching bout grenville instead :( First it was i can't ride and now it is grenville is a 'ugly black nigga' quote. She has also scared him, thought she was my friend let her look after him for 2 days while i was away, come back and he is panicking in the school and after pushing another girl told me she was quite nasty with him and grenville is a sensitive boy who needs sympathetic riding and being forceful gets you no where, she has also cut his mouth because he wouldn't stop but i said not to hack him anyway cos she isn't the best rider, she can't stop any horse at the best of times and now she is having a go every 5 mins when HER horse kicks mine while we ride and she lets her cut us off and kick gren when im miles away and i tell her to get her horse behind cos she kicks and she goes off on one. Sorry but i don't see how the hell she can take moral high ground, i could complain to the yard owner but everyone else likes her and 3 complaints are needed to get anything done i.e. kick her off the yard! Everything was great till she came now i like going to the farm to see gren but all i have is her being a ignorant s*** all the time and she is friends with my other friends so i cant avoid one without avoiding the other and my friend (not the b**** who i now HATE) despite knowing what she has said about me and grenville and said to grenville (well shouted at him) she still likes her! Oh and she has been bitching about my younger cousin which was out of order and im not a calm person when it comes to this sort of thing hense the rant so i don't beat the crap out of her. And i know it shouldn't bother me but her calling grenville a ugly black nigga really hurt, she can call me what she likes (TO MY FACE!!! for once) but grenville has done nothing to her. And she has got everyone else talking about how nasty he is too, but he hasn't got a nasty bone in his body! He is just sensitive and doesn't appreciate people walking in with dominant in your face body language and patting him hard on the neck! What shall i do? :\

At 11:59:48 on 25.08.11, Angelalain wrote:
I think you know the answer really but you need to let it all out, so you just did!Ask yourself a few things. Is this yard where I want to be? Do I have any choice i.e. its convenient, what I can afford and there's now where else I can go! If you have to stay then you just need to totally ignore what she's saying. Don't bother to ride with her, don't bother to comment on what she says, does etc. Don't blank her, bad mouth her, moan about her etc either to her face or to anyone else, just leave her out of your horsing, riding everything. People like that will soon make a wrong move and the other friends who still think she'd ok will start to wonder why she is so unpleasant to you when you give her no cause. If she does and says things about you she will soon do it about someone else if you don't rise to the bait, then she will be revealed for what she is.As for Grenville, if he isn't nasty then it should be obvious to everyone, don't let her handle him, ever.

At 12:45:50 on 25.08.11, JessAndGrenville123 wrote:
Yeah i just needed to let it all out :) and i don't really want to move cos i have been there with grenville from day one and she only moved recently so it is great except from her! But karma has came back and hit her in the face im glad to say :) someone (not me unlike what people have been saying which is rather annoying too!) has been saying some not nice things about her horse ginny and she was very upset yesterday and she accused me but i just told her people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones and that it wasn't me but if she can't take it then don't give it and she said sorry after i gave her (rather calmly to my suprise) a talking to about it so i am hoping to forget about it and see how it goes if she says anything else about me or grenville though i will be going to the yard owner and i will definately not let her touch him again lol we are civil but not friends and i think thats how it will stay so she wont be around me enough to say things about me but im glad its all over now so i'll see what the rest of the week brings :) if i need another rant though i reckon i will be back here again where the rant can do no harm or set any bitching off haha

At 16:51:20 on 26.08.11, ToriSilverson wrote:
awk i know the feeling jess, its not nice when people slabber about your horse, but as long as you know its not true, then stuff what anyone else thinks. i have people telling me charlie is ignorant or stubborn but i know he isnt so i dont care what they say. you understand grenville they dont :)